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New to the site?

If you're new to the site, or are not sure what does what, then take a look at our overview to familiarise yourself.

Where it all begins

This is where you will begin to meet new people. Read our search guide for useful tips.

Keeping track of all those people

Your shortlist is for storing your list of favourite people who you want to get to know. Let us show you how it works.

Breaking the ice

So you want to make a move? Just as in real life, you begin with flirting. Learn how to do this safely.

Sending and receiving messages

You've accepted a flirt or one of yours has been warmly received. Read more about sending and receiving messages.

Instant communication

Keeping your cool in the general chat area and navigating your way around the one-to-one chat rooms. Find out how.