Site Guide - Contacts

Sending and receiving messages

You've accepted a flirt or one of yours has been warmly received. Read more about sending and receiving messages.

From here to there

Take a look at our 'How to . . .' section on sending and receiving messages, including a start-to-finish guide showing you how it all works.

Getting to your messages

Selecting the red tab will take you to your contacts page. You can view the messages you have received or those you have sent with the Inbox and Sent messages links.

Your message list

As with your flirts, the messages you have sent and received are arranged by date with the most recent message first.

The messages are also conveniently colour-coded, with new unread messages listed in bold orange and messages that you have read in black.

Reading and responding

Selecting a message will cause it to expand, showing you a portion of the message, as well as the sender's phone and a link to their profile and a link to block contact from them.

You also have four buttons that let you choose what to do with the message.

Read more lets you view the whole message, Reply lets you repond to the message, Frwrd gives you the option of sending this message to your email address or another of your contacts and Delete lets you choose whether or not to remove the message