• Flirting guide introduction
• Step one: an overview of getting someone into your contacts
• Step 2: sending a flirt message
• Step 3: accepting a flirt message
• Visual overview

Step two: sending a flirt message

Just like in real life, you need to flirt with someone to get their attention.

You do this by selecting the Send a flirt icon, which will be listed in the expanded view on the search and shortlist pages and on everyone's profile page.

You will then be taken to the send flirt page. This lets you not only show them you are interested, but lets you choose a short message to send. You can choose a pre-defined message or, better still, type in your own choice of message.

Take a look at the next step to find out how to accept a flirt message, and how to tell when a flirt has been accepted.