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Flirting and getting to know people

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A start to finish guide to getting someone into your contacts: Visual overview

Find someone in your search results or shortlist and take a closer look. Select the white and orange heart icon. Send a flirt message, by either selecting a pre-defined message, or by being more personal and writing your own. All you have to do now is wait. If the person you are interested in accepts your flirt, they will be added to your contacts list, allowing you to send them emails and to chat with them privately.